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Lyssa’s Corner – Things We All Need To Hear

Lyssa’s Corner – Things We All Need To Hear

Fair warning: this may be a post that not many people like, but it’s a post a lot of people need to hear.

To the ladies: Stop being so damn demanding and high maintenance. You want someone who has a job that pays a lot of money, they spends all of their time and money on you, answers all your texts as soon as you send them, and has no other friends besides you. This can’t keep happening. First of all surviving in this world and economy is hard enough. Having someone who is supposed to love and support you on your back all the time only makes it worse. You’ll end up driving each apart and crazy.
Give them a chance to succeed and understand that they are going to need help. Just because he asks for money from time to time doesn’t make them a deadbeat. It makes them human. A relationship is give and take. You get out of it what you put into it.

To the men: stop being so controlling and calm down with the double standards. Don’t do things with “your boys” or with other females that you wouldn’t want your significant other to do. If you can’t stay faithful then stay single, and stop making excuses to be an asshole. If you screw up own up to it. It’s NEVER okay to cheat.
Stop telling your significant other how to dress and who they can and can’t be friends with. You’re not their parent and they don’t need your permission. They’re free to talk to and be friends with whoever they please. If they’re not being unfaithful you don’t need to worry about it. If they are being unfaithful that’s someone you don’t need to control, that’s someone you need to get rid of. Your significant other is not a dog, you shouldn’t need to monitor them.

To both: Learn to trust and learn to be worthy of trust. Everyone is always complaining about how they can’t trust anyone, but they’ll be the first ones to cheat. If being in a relationship makes you that uncomfortable then you should just stay single. Marrying/dating someone just to keep from being alone is the quickest way to end up alone or hurting someone else. Learn to know the difference between needing someone to keep your bed warm and actually being ready for a relationship.


August 22nd, 2016

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